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Two-column say this, not that
A viral relationships and dating format on TikTok and Instagram
Show the weak or immature phrase beside the better version, so viewers can screenshot and reuse them.
4
accounts it worked for
5x
median, times their usual
#44
of 55 in relationships and dating
Editing trick
Slideshow, Talking head
Why it works
Dr.dan.phd, chclaireh, audreyabrothers and colezesiger all lay phrases side by side (immature vs mature, passive vs enthusiastic, lie vs truth). The contrast reads in seconds and the post is easy to save.
Hook formulaSaying "[common phrase]" vs saying "[healthy script]"
How to make it
- 1Pick one everyday phrase pattern
- 2Put the bad version and the better version in opposing positions
- 3Match each with a reaction or a short explanation
- 4End with a one-line takeaway
Examples
Best first, one per account. Each links to the original post.
- @colezesiger
380K followers, TikTok
“7 Lies Anxiety Tells You During No Contact (and what's actually true)”
12x their usual views, slideshow, breakups
- @chclaireh
155K followers, Instagram
““I would love to” “Sure, okay””
3.7x their usual likes, slideshow, breakups
- @audreyabrothers
218K followers, TikTok
“basic relationship communication 101 part 3”
6.8x their usual views, talking head, breakups
- @dr.dan.phd
156K followers, Instagram
“One of the clearest signs of emotional maturity is how someone responds when you tell them they hurt you. Here’s why:”
3.4x their usual likes, slideshow, breakups
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How this is measured
- Every post is compared with its own account's usual reach, not with other accounts. "14x their usual" means the post got 14 times the median views of that account's recent posts.
- TikTok videos and Instagram Reels are measured on views. Instagram carousels have no view count, so they are measured on likes against the account's usual likes, and say so.
- A post makes the library at 2x its account's usual or more. A format is a repeatable move (what is said or shown, or how it is edited) that several accounts used in breakout posts. It is listed here once it worked for 3 or more different accounts.
- Formats rank on how many accounts they worked for and how far above usual, damped so a fluke on one tiny account cannot outrank a format that worked for ten.