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Translate a cliché line into its real meaning

A viral relationships and dating format on TikTok and Instagram

Take a phrase the audience has actually heard in dating and decode what it really means.

4

accounts it worked for

5x

median, times their usual

#43

of 55 in relationships and dating

Angle

Skit, Slideshow, Talking head

Why it works

The phrase is verbatim and familiar, so viewers recognise their own experience at once, and the blunt translation is easy to share or argue with.

Hook formula"[Exact phrase]", translated: what he actually means is [blunt truth]

How to make it

  1. 1Quote the exact line on screen
  2. 2Give the harsh real meaning
  3. 3Repeat for several lines or act it out

Examples

Best first, one per account. Each links to the original post.

  • @mindbrainbodylab

    286K followers, Instagram

    “"You're Too Good For Me," Translated”

    11x their usual likes, skit, dating advice

  • @winggirlmethod

    95K followers, Instagram

    “Stop Hovering: Approach Her Friends First”

    6.6x their usual views, talking head, dating advice

  • @corytalksnow

    71K followers, TikTok

    “5 Excuses Men Give After Ghosting You And What They REALLY Mean”

    2.6x their usual views, slideshow, dating advice

  • @ingridexplainsitall

    763K followers, TikTok

    “Things Men say That ALWAYS TELL ON THEMSELVES”

    2.5x their usual views, talking head, dating advice

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How this is measured

  • Every post is compared with its own account's usual reach, not with other accounts. "14x their usual" means the post got 14 times the median views of that account's recent posts.
  • TikTok videos and Instagram Reels are measured on views. Instagram carousels have no view count, so they are measured on likes against the account's usual likes, and say so.
  • A post makes the library at 2x its account's usual or more. A format is a repeatable move (what is said or shown, or how it is edited) that several accounts used in breakout posts. It is listed here once it worked for 3 or more different accounts.
  • Formats rank on how many accounts they worked for and how far above usual, damped so a fluke on one tiny account cannot outrank a format that worked for ten.