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Credential tagged right onto the hook

A viral relationships and dating format on TikTok and Instagram

Put a sharp credential or insider identity in the hook line or banner, such as 'former sociologist', 'matchmaker married twice', 'I'm a barrister' or 'coming from a girl'.

5

accounts it worked for

7x

median, times their usual

#25

of 55 in relationships and dating

Editing trick

Talking head, Slideshow

Why it works

It gives viewers a quick reason to trust the advice without needing a long intro. The credential sits where it's seen straight away.

Hook formula[Hook claim] ([surprising credential])

How to make it

  1. 1Write the hook as a how-to or truth
  2. 2Add the credential in brackets or as a banner
  3. 3Show it in the first seconds

Examples

Best first, one per account. Each links to the original post.

  • @therapywith_b

    20K followers, TikTok

    “Types of people I wouldn’t be close friends with”

    76x their usual views, talking head, friendship

  • @drjesscarbino

    8K followers, Instagram

    “The truth about dating apps from Tinder's former sociologist”

    26x their usual views, talking head, dating advice

  • @secret.edne

    488K followers, TikTok

    “how to get her to think about you after a convo (coming from a girl)”

    5.7x their usual views, talking head, dating advice

  • @ericasuzannematchmaking

    49K followers, Instagram

    “How to know if you're dating your future husband (first hand experience from a professional matchmaker who's been married twice)”

    7.6x their usual views, talking head, dating advice

  • @familybarrister

    32K followers, Instagram

    “The one thing a narcissistic ex will hate the most - I'm a Barrister”

    5.3x their usual views, talking head, dating advice

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How this is measured

  • Every post is compared with its own account's usual reach, not with other accounts. "14x their usual" means the post got 14 times the median views of that account's recent posts.
  • TikTok videos and Instagram Reels are measured on views. Instagram carousels have no view count, so they are measured on likes against the account's usual likes, and say so.
  • A post makes the library at 2x its account's usual or more. A format is a repeatable move (what is said or shown, or how it is edited) that several accounts used in breakout posts. It is listed here once it worked for 3 or more different accounts.
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